Why does a man feel insecure and jealous ?
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Posted by admin on July 18th, 2007 filed in Issues For Men
Well, you finally got your dream girl. She’s sexy & good-looking . She’s definitely a catch! Every time you go out, other guys are checking her out. So, you hold her closer, have a protective arm around her, and cast steely “Don’t you mess with my girlfriend” stares at the other guys. You closely watch her every move and feel a pang of jealousy and insecurity, even at times when it is not the least bit warranted. You constantly call her up to check up on her or count the seconds before she answers your call.
You’ve been too paranoid too many times whenever she says she’s out with her girl friends or co-workers, or if she’s meeting up with a high school sweetheart or an ex-flame. You instantly erupt in jealous rage at the mention of past loves.
You feel trapped by your insecurity and direct your energy to over protectiveness and jealousy instead. So, you try to buy her time and attention by overwhelming her with the prettiest flowers, wonderful gifts, expensive dinners, and luxurious holidays.
You want to control and have the upper hand in the relationship. You utilize the possess-and-isolate tactic on her. You always make excuses for her to be always with you, or to be available at your beck and call. Her girl friends are exasperated with you and upset at how possessive you are.
So where does all this jealousy and insecurity comes from? You may have bad experiences before regarding relationships and loyalty, and you ensure that it doesn’t ever happen again. In turn, you intensely guarantee that you are the sole object of her desire.
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