The sexual and emotional gratification that is derived from the sex act between two males, is not only able to make males impervious to the lure of females, but is actually powerful enough, to counter balance all the benefits that goes with being married, of having a wife and belonging to a family. It is the single most deputed controversy throughout human history and it therefore makes me believe, that it somehow must hold the answers to that which we seek to know!
The things that we are made to believe... and when you talk about a brainless, soulless creature, belief is then the word that you use for explaining their reasoning. It is the method whereby certain ideas are imprinted or hardwired into the mind from a very young age. Like with all sermons, prayers and chants these ideas or beliefs are continuously reinforced through a process of repetition. To change these peoples minds you would first need to invent a time machine...
Unfortunately this phenomenon to learn things applies to all of us and through our upbringing, the mass media and our schooling, we have all become to believe certain thing that are simply not true. One such a thing and maybe also one of the most startling, is our belief that males are sexually attracted to females. This conclusion is based on a crude and semi-conscious observation of what happens in nature, where males and females would copulate as part of the reproduction function - and surely there is nothing more heterosexual than an insect!
In order to understand sexual attraction, we first need to redefine what we understand as sex. The sexual act between a male and female can hardly be seen as the definition for sex, not the way we have come to understand it, at least the way males understand it. At best it is merely an act of copulation and when you talk about copulation, the image of antelope on the grass planes of Africa, involuntarily comes to mind - it is merely meant to be a rapid act of insemination!
Observing higher advanced animals, where pleasure does seem to be an important motivator, only proves one thing; The inability of these males to achieve sexual gratification through any other means! Human males are sexually motivated by two distinct processes. The one is a rudimentary and very simplistic desire to copulate, to penetrate and consequently to inseminate, and like with all animals, it seems to be externally controlled and relies heavily on sensory stimuli, pheromones and in general the ability of females to vigorously advertize their availability for copulation.
When you observe the sexual behaviour between males, it becomes apparent that this process is not at work, and it seems to function on something completely different. Though the sexual act itself might appear to be similar, the underlying emotions and motivators are not! It functions on something completely different. Things that seems to fall in the realm of what can be called 'the higher aesthete of man'.
Males have always looked upon the biologic-instinctive behaviour of females and the sex act between males and females with embarrassment, as it would suggest that it is this, more than anything else, that would dehumanize us to that of the animal kingdom. In this regard it is then also females that willingly carry the brunt of this humiliation, and might also be one of the reasons why females resent males so much.
Counter intuitively, sexual attraction only truly exists amongst humans and then also only amongst individuals of the same sex, and it is far more prominent amongst males than females.
To understand heterosexuality amongst males, you need to envision a male being blindfolded, with his hands tied behind his back, forever seeking sexual gratification in the dark. What would then define him as heterosexual, would be the probability of the occurrence of females that position themselves directly in his path. Our genes made us horny, it might even have given males an inclination to penetrate, but it cannot possibly tell us what to copulate. This is left up to the organism himself, with a lot of help from the female sex.
All females harbour a hidden resentment towards the way males get to experience sex, and it is maybe because we get to enjoy it, but much rather because they fear that the enjoyment itself, would distract us from its purpose. This malicious relationship already starts with a boy and his own mother, and continues into adulthood. Forever pulling their ponytails and making them cry...
The way males are 'sexually castrated' by females, is represented in human society by institutions like the church and religion, and is evident of the desire of females, to moderate the sexual behaviour of males.
Not allowing males and especially young boys to experience their sexuality in a natural way, is the greatest injustice against humanity, and is most likely the reason for everything else that is also wrong in this world!
Author: thenatureinme
Keywords: heterosexuality homosexuality procreation sex females males global-warming mass-extinction
Added: November 3, 2008